Love Potion No. 9

[wonderbunny]

I have a theory, I think Pheronomes is God's secret perfume. If everyone never wore aftershave or perfume, I think we could all find our soul mate with no problem. (Kind of like animals have no problem, sniff test) When we use fancy scents it clouds our judgement. And then later down the road that person irritates the beejeezes out of us and we can figure out why we found the person remotely interesting. Trojan Horse, but they look (smell) good

[quirky]

So do you advocate sniffing people?

[KC8t80]

only when u r about ten feet away from them.

[wonderbunny]

Sniff Test, why not? I mean people use even more bizarre methods of matchmaking, internet, bars, blind dates, astrology, and even sleep with them on the first date. I think God set up a fool proof method, but we've been programmed to think it has to be more complicated! Why not have a personalized essence that is only appealing to your mate... We get lost in the visual, and not the natural. Most happy marriages are with someone they never thought they'd marry; or arranged marriages. Strange isn't it? Left to our own devices, we get divorce, prenuptuals, alimony and child support.... makes me wonder

[fluffy]

lol......i confess i actually love the smell of a sweaty bloke after he's been doing something physical.... like sport for example............lol....but clean sweat not stale, cheesy,smelly BO sweat.........but pheremone packed clean, active sexy sweat..............lol..........yum!!.......lol

fluffy

[quirky]

According to Murphy's Law. I'll probably meet "the one" when I have a cold and can't sniff that he's it!

[wonderbunny]

Its not like I would ask a nice looking man to smell his arm pit! But the nape of the neck wouldn't be a bad idea? Handshake/hug/sniff.... ? What do you think? Crazy as a loon right? Still, I think God had this thing mastered thousands of years ago, we went and invented deoderant and perfume/cologne. Don' get me wrong I like and used that stuff too, but I keep wondering.... Maybe we are doing it wrong?

[fluffy]

lol..........well we're not really supposed to actually smell pheremones........lol......it's just a chemical reaction thing........lol

fluffy

[wonderbunny]

I know its a secret! The essence is the attraction. Have you ever been attracted to someone who's 'just not your type?'

[fluffy]

i was engaged to him.........lol......i had a lucky escape......lol

fluffy

[wonderbunny]

Congratulations Fluffy, I remember the 'one' who I thought was it; we broke up later and I'm so glad we did. I will always cherish him for that first relationship, some bittersweet stuff; but he's now happily married and I'm so glad. Life has its twists.... I ran into him one day when I had a mini crisis, (my wallet was stolen, and I was stranded in a town 100 miles from home) I phoned him up (10 years later) as always he was a perfect gentleman, loaned me $10 for gas home; I was grateful that I could still speak with him, we caught up on our lives, and I walked away so full of love for him and his wife. They make a great couple! Funny huh?

[fluffy]

Well........what i can say is that i learned how to make a relationship work, i'm a fighter and a sticker if i love....I know that relationships don't have to abide by societies blueprint..it's what right for the individuals and couple that's important...But i learned how to love 150% without crowding the other person out.......we all need space in love..or it gets squashed dead..........and importantly i guess i made the transition from girl to woman in the relationship.............
So i don't regret it..........i just wished i'd left sooner......B4 i felt suffocated...........

fluffy