friends

[george]

i think you are off topic!!!(actually that's the name of this category )!!! i still looking for ways to have my girlfriend happy and have female friends! someone told me "go,do whatever you want to do and let her girlfriend know nothing".but i don't want to hurt her feelings i just want to have a friend not a misstress!AAAAAAAAAH! YOU CRUEL WORLD!!!

[fluffy]

you have to ask yourself if this friend wanted more from you would you be tempted?..........
If yes then you have to re-examine both relationships............perhaps neither is right and you need to sort your head out and have a break...........

fluffy

[george]

i love my girlfriend, i really do but i just want to have friends that;s all. it is simple but yet complicated. i won't say anything else cause it's tiring for you.
also there is not a clear answer...
I LOVE MY GIRLFRIEND
I WANT TO HAVE FRIENDS
isn't it funny?
if therefore i should choose one of these i'll definately will choose my girlriend. we are 2 years together, she supports me and makes me feel nice.(which some "friends" i want doesn't)
*end of story*
credits please..

[Jimenem]

Well. . . you girlfriend doesn't stop you from having friends, as long as they're guys. But she should be the only girl you want any kind of relationship with. NEVER go behind her back. That will ruin any chance of you two being happy.

Would you rather have your girlfriend, or female friends? Pick one or the other. Trying to juggle both will only end in disaster.
I think you have some evaluating to do.

If you truly love your girlfriend you should be happy even if all the other females in the world were to dissapear. Because in all actuality, when you become someones boyfriend, all other females do dissappear as far as you're concerned.

[Jimenem]

just something to keep in mind, you say it's over with, but temptations will ALWAYS be there.

[kasper]

To be honest, I think the only thing that needs to go is jealousy. I have more guy friends then I do girl friends, and my ex was completely jealous and always gripping at me... and these guys were his friends too.

I don't know. Thats one reason I don't like relationships. I want to be able to be friends with whoever I want. I understand where your coming from, but I'm definetly not like most girls... I don't get jealous like that. If you don't have trust in your relationship, its going to fall apart.

But, George, if your girlfriend is the jealous type then it is definetly not smart to be friends with this other chick. Especially if you care about your girlfriend. BAD MOVE.

But really, in the end, its your choice.

[george]

thanx guys,my girlfriend is the jealus type but i love her and i believe i can live without female friends.at least i hope so..i choose her.it's just sad the whole thing.
to be honest i am jealous too..but i trust her. trust is the more significant part in a relationship. damn jealous!!!
ps.jimenem and casper you spoke good!how old are you really?(optional answer ). i am 23 but in love matters i am acting like a 13 year old boy!

[kasper]

I really am 127 years old. They didn't have that age option on the profile. I am very truly disturbed by that. I feel discluded from the joys of life.

[george]

hahahaha!

[fluffy]

Ahhh.......but you have so much more...........like diapers, and false teeth and thermal underwear..............

your life is so much more full.......

fluffy

[kasper]

Yes, but its quite tragic to wake up one morning and get out of your bed for your legs to colapse and fall off.

[george]

i got it! you are 155!!!

[kasper]

Darn. I thought if I went down 28 years nobody would notice.

[Jimenem]

Ahh so you must be a photoshop master. OR you have pictures of your great-great-great-great-grandaughter. It amazing how well old people can adapt to technilogical advances!

[kasper]

You'd be surprised