a very hypothetical question!/the night of your life?

[kasper]

I believe differently. Sex is something to be held dear, not something to just do because you can. It was intended to be a sacred thing between two people who love and will spend the rest of their lives with each other. People my age now days take advantage of that.

[fluffy]

yes......i guess you feel different to so many kids today.......but you have all the time in the world dear Kasper..........when the time is right you'll know..... ..........

stick with your beliefs.......they are worth hanging onto........

fluffy

[kasper]

To be honest with you, people have said that all my life. The line "when the time is right". Theres been times when I've FELT the time was right, but really, it never was. I mean, come on, where is that guy now? Thats the one thing that keeps me true to my beliefs... if he would be going to be with me for the rest of my life, then why do it now? As you said... theres all the time in the world

[fluffy]

lol................you will know......... it'll feel different in your head......
you might be 16 or 26 ...............it really doesn't matter when.......
There's no age limit on love........

fluffy

[kasper]

As far as I'm concerned, sex isn't love. Love goes so much deeper then that.

[george]

first of all i have to say that i agree with you kasper. it's good for me to see some people thinking like you cause many people at your age think different and may do mistakes they carry on for their lives. i was like you wondering where is the right woman and worried that she might never come. but i prefered waiting than do sth just to do it. and the right woman came and i am glad my first time was with that person cause there was the feeling not taking advantage or sth. and it was worthy even if i wait until my 18. so let say to you something you propably didn't hear before...be cool, there is all the time of the world!

[fluffy]

sex isn't love. Love goes so much deeper then that

lol................no it's not babe...........but in a good situation you'll love the boy you have sex with.............lol.........

fluffy

[kasper]

Of course I will. But if its before marriage, a 75% chance says that person won't be there forever. And I don't want that. Whether at that moment I love him or not. Thats why I want that commitment.

[quirky]

Using experience as a teacher....

Well....I don't know. I don't even want to ponder this. I don't think it's healthy.

[fluffy]

what ...........the would you spend the night with Jim Dilema??...............

it's an interesting one though.......but a lifetime of friendship is worth more than a night of lust...............

i guess it depends how crazy with lust he could make us .......lol

fluffy

[quirky]

I think I'd converse for a really long time. The situation you've described is very one-sided. And there should be, if there is love, two sides.

[fluffy]

lol............but we're not talking about love.............George proposed one night of passion or a good friendship................love was never mentioned............lol...........

you can have wonderful fun without love too..............whether it involves sex or not..................

fluffy

[quirky]

A friendship, then.

[fluffy]

lol.......yeah that's what i chose too.............lol............

but a night of wild passion would be fun too...........lol....

hell, i'd be happy just going for a coffee...........lol

fluffy

[george]

for a cofee or a drink? just kidding..if i was a girl and i have to choose between friendship or spending a night with him i'll propably choose friendshipe because it is a big deal i think to be friend with a hollywood star! but if it was about an average person since there was a desire for sex i would prefer that cause otherwise i couldn't be friend with him(or her) and think all the time about it..